The Tool Box For Women – Based on The Art of Being a Woman

Inside this post you will find some words of wisdom that are known to many of us, but so sincerely worthy of reading again.

 

Enjoy!

 

Tool Box Kit #1 – Self Love

Things you need:
You
Mirror
Quiet space

Take your clothing off completely and stand in front of a mirror. You are absolutely not allowed to look at the negative. As Rose said in another thread, take this moment, a “you” moment to find your best attributes. Perhaps its your hair, maybe its the swell of a shoulder… or a hip. I want you to find something in your body, in the mirror, alone that you love.

Write what you feel down. If you want to share it here that is absolutely fine. (There is a fantastic forum here)  If you want to keep it for you, that’s OK too! But write down your thoughts and what body part or emotion made you feel sexy in your “you” moment.

Good Luck Girls… and guess what.. we already love you for exactly who you are, its only fair for you to begin to love you too 🙂

 

Tool Box Kit #2 – Do Something Amazing Everyday

Do something amazing everyday.

If its opening a door for someone, buying the person behind you a coffee, smiling at someone, leaning over and telling something wow.. thats a great outfit!

Do something amazing everyday.

Making a difference in your day can change everything.. can change a moment that you didnt even realize was coming…

Watch,

 

Tool Box Kit #3 – Make a Difference..for you

 

Do not let the poison of others seep into your skin.

You think people want the best for you, that they want to help you, that they befriend you but then… their poison seeps in. Take control of what kind of people you allow in your world. Its just as important as knowing and being in your own skin.

Boundaries are so very important.

Write something special.. even if it is just a sentence about yourself. Read that sentence to yourself every morning for a week. Once the week is over…

Did it make a difference?

 

Tool Box Kit #4 – Confidence

We are responsible for ourselves. We, whether we fail or succeed own our body, and mind. We are responsible.

So where does this leave women these days when they are looking for a partner, mate, dominate, master, insert position or alternative here.When we fail to find a companion that aligns to us, what does that mean? What can we do to change our stars? How do we evaluate ourselves to be more becoming as the women we know we are?

Are we the rift, the reason.. that we fail, what prevents us from success? Are women today set up to fail because they are afraid? Get a list, work it, Girls. Here is one to start, try.

https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/281874

Do you feel more confident? Did you smile more?

 

Tool Box Kit #5 – Be Careful who you trust on the internet

Here is just one piece you can look at, but look at everything. Get greedy with your own safety. After all you deserve it.

 

Tool Box Kit #6 – Body Language

I highly recommend you watch this girls, it will change you. I want to see the most wonderful, beautiful, confident women I can help develop. But not because of a station you are in sexually, or a position you have taken, simply because you can be.

Become.

Ingredients needed:

1. Your body
2. 2 Minutes
3. Privacy

 

Tool Box Kit #7 – Police Report Controversy

The Police Report Controversy.

PEOPLE who have nothing to hide, hide NOTHING.

My example, You are with someone, you are dating, its new, you are in the pool of love, you are blinded, and overlooking some of things you normally wouldn’t. You make a decision after some months, and say.. YEAH, hell yeah, lets move in together. You aren’t married, you have no formal documents, you are just residing together having lots of sex, and holding hands.. and being.. INLOVE. ( PS you insert any newly found companionship, M/s, Gorean, or other kink in here for example) You see time fly by. Its still just you and him. One day you head off to work still smiling in your love cloud, and you are approached by a guy. He serves you. In Canada, and some States in the US, a common law partner can be sued for BACK CHILD support. You have just been served with 10 years of Back Child Support because the man you love forgot to tell you, he has never paid a dime in his life to his children. His ex partners have found him, and you. You are looking at the first legal documents you have ever seen in your life, and now what.

My example, You are with someone, you are dating, its new, you are in the pool of love, you are blinded, and overlooking some of things you normally wouldn’t. You make a decision after some months, and say.. YEAH, hell yeah, lets move in together. You aren’t married, you have no formal documents, you are just residing together having lots of sex, and holding hands.. and being.. INLOVE. YOU ARE a single mom and have two daughters under the age of 10.( PS you insert any newly found companionship, M/s, Gorean, or other kink in here for example) You see time fly by. Its still just you and him. One day you head off to work, your new guy is at home watching the kids, you are still smiling in your love cloud, on your way home you get a call from the Police. Your partner has been arrested on an outstanding warrant, and your kids are in foster care. You left your children with a convicted felon, you didn’t know, your daughters have never been away from you once in their lives, and now they are with strangers and you may or may not get them back tonight, now what.

These examples are absolute blindsides. Its meant to show that people who do all the right things, use common sense can be lied to, manipulated, and harmed. Good folk who have never seen the other side of the tracks, never even had a speeding ticket now get pulled into legal systems, and situations because they did not communicate effectively enough before making a HUGE life changing decision.

So here are some stats,

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/terry-gaspard-msw-lic……

• Over 50 percent of couples who cohabitate before marriage are broken up within five years (Cherlin, 2009)
• Over 75 percent of children born to couples who are not married no longer live with both parents by the age of fifteen(Cherlin, 2009)
• 47 percent of American women who give birth in their twenties are unmarried at the time (New York Times)
• U.S. taxpayers spent $112 billion in 2011 helping to support children and families with unmarried parents (Washington Post)

http://www.circleofmoms.com/moms-against-child-abus……

**Abuse is 14x’s higher if the child is living with a biological mother who lives alone.
**Abuse is 20x’s higher if the child is living with a biological father who lives alone.
**Abuse is 20x’s higher if the child is with biological parents who are not married but are cohabiting.
**Abuse is 33x’s higher if the child is living with a mother who is living with a man.
** 1,500 children die from abuse each year.

If you have children in your home, get a police report. You absolutely need to protect your family, and your state of mind. Do you think someone who wants to be with you will give two shits about ensuring you know everything about them. They won’t. They will want to do everything in their power to build something worthy with you.

If you are getting to a serious section in your relationship, and you are thinking move in, build a co-habitation agreement. Adults with stuff, need to protect stuff. You need to be clear on your stands, and so does your potential partner(s). Relationships have financial obligations, have responsibilities. If you are about to pay the way, you best be aware of how long, and why.

People who have nothing to hide, hide nothing.

 

More to add later, however this is an excellent start for women, about women, developing ourselves to be beautiful, pleasing, and simply more becoming then we already are.

 

 

Nyre

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