The Tool Box For Women — Based on The Art of Being a Woman

Inside this post you will find some words of wis­dom that are known to many of us, but so sin­cere­ly wor­thy of read­ing again.

 

Enjoy!

 

Tool Box Kit #1 — Self Love

Things you need:
You
Mirror
Quiet space

Take your cloth­ing off com­plete­ly and stand in front of a mir­ror. You are absolute­ly not allowed to look at the neg­a­tive. As Rose said in anoth­er thread, take this moment, a “you” moment to find your best attrib­ut­es. Perhaps its your hair, maybe its the swell of a shoul­der… or a hip. I want you to find some­thing in your body, in the mir­ror, alone that you love.

Write what you feel down. If you want to share it here that is absolute­ly fine. (There is a fan­tas­tic forum here)  If you want to keep it for you, that’s OK too! But write down your thoughts and what body part or emo­tion made you feel sexy in your “you” moment.

Good Luck Girls… and guess what.. we already love you for exact­ly who you are, its only fair for you to begin to love you too 🙂

 

Tool Box Kit #2 — Do Something Amazing Everyday

Do some­thing amaz­ing everyday.

If its open­ing a door for some­one, buy­ing the per­son behind you a cof­fee, smil­ing at some­one, lean­ing over and telling some­thing wow.. thats a great outfit!

Do some­thing amaz­ing everyday.

Making a dif­fer­ence in your day can change every­thing.. can change a moment that you did­nt even real­ize was coming…

Watch,

 

Tool Box Kit #3 — Make a Difference..for you

 

Do not let the poi­son of oth­ers seep into your skin.

You think peo­ple want the best for you, that they want to help you, that they befriend you but then… their poi­son seeps in. Take con­trol of what kind of peo­ple you allow in your world. Its just as impor­tant as know­ing and being in your own skin.

Boundaries are so very important.

Write some­thing spe­cial.. even if it is just a sen­tence about your­self. Read that sen­tence to your­self every morn­ing for a week. Once the week is over…

Did it make a difference?

 

Tool Box Kit #4 — Confidence

We are respon­si­ble for our­selves. We, whether we fail or suc­ceed own our body, and mind. We are responsible.

So where does this leave women these days when they are look­ing for a part­ner, mate, dom­i­nate, mas­ter, insert posi­tion or alter­na­tive here.When we fail to find a com­pan­ion that aligns to us, what does that mean? What can we do to change our stars? How do we eval­u­ate our­selves to be more becom­ing as the women we know we are?

Are we the rift, the rea­son.. that we fail, what pre­vents us from suc­cess? Are women today set up to fail because they are afraid? Get a list, work it, Girls. Here is one to start, try.

https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/281874

Do you feel more con­fi­dent? Did you smile more?

 

Tool Box Kit #5 — Be Careful who you trust on the internet

Here is just one piece you can look at, but look at every­thing. Get greedy with your own safe­ty. After all you deserve it.

 

Tool Box Kit #6 — Body Language

I high­ly rec­om­mend you watch this girls, it will change you. I want to see the most won­der­ful, beau­ti­ful, con­fi­dent women I can help devel­op. But not because of a sta­tion you are in sex­u­al­ly, or a posi­tion you have tak­en, sim­ply because you can be.

Become.

Ingredients need­ed:

1. Your body
2. 2 Minutes
3. Privacy

 

Tool Box Kit #7 — Police Report Controversy

The Police Report Controversy.

PEOPLE who have noth­ing to hide, hide NOTHING.

My exam­ple, You are with some­one, you are dat­ing, its new, you are in the pool of love, you are blind­ed, and over­look­ing some of things you nor­mal­ly would­n’t. You make a deci­sion after some months, and say.. YEAH, hell yeah, lets move in togeth­er. You aren’t mar­ried, you have no for­mal doc­u­ments, you are just resid­ing togeth­er hav­ing lots of sex, and hold­ing hands.. and being.. INLOVE. ( PS you insert any new­ly found com­pan­ion­ship, M/​s, Gorean, or oth­er kink in here for exam­ple) You see time fly by. Its still just you and him. One day you head off to work still smil­ing in your love cloud, and you are approached by a guy. He serves you. In Canada, and some States in the US, a com­mon law part­ner can be sued for BACK CHILD sup­port. You have just been served with 10 years of Back Child Support because the man you love for­got to tell you, he has nev­er paid a dime in his life to his chil­dren. His ex part­ners have found him, and you. You are look­ing at the first legal doc­u­ments you have ever seen in your life, and now what.

My exam­ple, You are with some­one, you are dat­ing, its new, you are in the pool of love, you are blind­ed, and over­look­ing some of things you nor­mal­ly would­n’t. You make a deci­sion after some months, and say.. YEAH, hell yeah, lets move in togeth­er. You aren’t mar­ried, you have no for­mal doc­u­ments, you are just resid­ing togeth­er hav­ing lots of sex, and hold­ing hands.. and being.. INLOVE. YOU ARE a sin­gle mom and have two daugh­ters under the age of 10.( PS you insert any new­ly found com­pan­ion­ship, M/​s, Gorean, or oth­er kink in here for exam­ple) You see time fly by. Its still just you and him. One day you head off to work, your new guy is at home watch­ing the kids, you are still smil­ing in your love cloud, on your way home you get a call from the Police. Your part­ner has been arrest­ed on an out­stand­ing war­rant, and your kids are in fos­ter care. You left your chil­dren with a con­vict­ed felon, you did­n’t know, your daugh­ters have nev­er been away from you once in their lives, and now they are with strangers and you may or may not get them back tonight, now what.

These exam­ples are absolute blind­sides. Its meant to show that peo­ple who do all the right things, use com­mon sense can be lied to, manip­u­lat­ed, and harmed. Good folk who have nev­er seen the oth­er side of the tracks, nev­er even had a speed­ing tick­et now get pulled into legal sys­tems, and sit­u­a­tions because they did not com­mu­ni­cate effec­tive­ly enough before mak­ing a HUGE life chang­ing decision.

So here are some stats,

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/terry-gaspard-msw-lic……

• Over 50 per­cent of cou­ples who cohab­i­tate before mar­riage are bro­ken up with­in five years (Cherlin, 2009)
• Over 75 per­cent of chil­dren born to cou­ples who are not mar­ried no longer live with both par­ents by the age of fifteen(Cherlin, 2009)
• 47 per­cent of American women who give birth in their twen­ties are unmar­ried at the time (New York Times)
• U.S. tax­pay­ers spent $112 bil­lion in 2011 help­ing to sup­port chil­dren and fam­i­lies with unmar­ried par­ents (Washington Post)

http://www.circleofmoms.com/moms-against-child-abus……

**Abuse is 14x’s high­er if the child is liv­ing with a bio­log­i­cal moth­er who lives alone.
**Abuse is 20x’s high­er if the child is liv­ing with a bio­log­i­cal father who lives alone.
**Abuse is 20x’s high­er if the child is with bio­log­i­cal par­ents who are not mar­ried but are cohabiting.
**Abuse is 33x’s high­er if the child is liv­ing with a moth­er who is liv­ing with a man.
** 1,500 chil­dren die from abuse each year.

If you have chil­dren in your home, get a police report. You absolute­ly need to pro­tect your fam­i­ly, and your state of mind. Do you think some­one who wants to be with you will give two shits about ensur­ing you know every­thing about them. They won’t. They will want to do every­thing in their pow­er to build some­thing wor­thy with you.

If you are get­ting to a seri­ous sec­tion in your rela­tion­ship, and you are think­ing move in, build a co-habi­ta­tion agree­ment. Adults with stuff, need to pro­tect stuff. You need to be clear on your stands, and so does your poten­tial partner(s). Relationships have finan­cial oblig­a­tions, have respon­si­bil­i­ties. If you are about to pay the way, you best be aware of how long, and why.

People who have noth­ing to hide, hide nothing.

 

More to add lat­er, how­ev­er this is an excel­lent start for women, about women, devel­op­ing our­selves to be beau­ti­ful, pleas­ing, and sim­ply more becom­ing then we already are.

 

 

Nyre

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