Refusing to Judge — Ayn Rand
“The man who refuses to judge, who neither agrees nor disagrees, who declares that there are no absolutes and believes that he escapes responsibility, is the man responsible for all the blood that is now spilled in the world. Reality is an absolute, existence is an absolute, a speck of…
Beauty — A Cornerstone of Gorean Philosophy
In my travels within the communities subscribing to reality based expectation, living and understanding cornerstone ethos of Gor I was asked; “How does it translate for those living the philosophy? “Do you place a high value on beauty?” Below is the answer to one of the most enduring cornerstones to…
You might not be Gorean if…
…You have named your recently acquired property, “littleone” or babydoll” or “sweetiekins” or “sugarbottom” ( From Wise old Bear) …You have a wife, but secretly sign online to play “Master” mostly because you are bored, and rarely get laid. …You have set up *safe* words so your special love kajira doesn’t get…
Predators, Gas Lighters, Sociopaths, and Keys to Understanding How to Get out
Definitions we will need for this article Gaslighting: “Gaslighting is a malicious and hidden form of mental and emotional abuse (link is external), designed to plant seeds of self-doubt and alter your perception of reality. Like all abuse, it’s based on the need for power, control, or concealment.” Perpetrator often…
Love Bombing, Today’s Relationship Concerns
What the hell is love bombing? I am absolutely in shock. I heard this term on a show I was watching yesterday and immediately it resonated in a few relationships I have had over the years. I began to read, and research more about this very serious concern that is…
My Courage: A Free Woman’s Oath Over the Years, My Oath To Myself
To myself, I am strong enough to not be afraid, I am an example to other women who have been harmed, and hurt over the years. I will stand strong, and with courage. It’s OK that I often stand alone because others are afraid to fit in, or be not be…